To us, Bings!

            I have recently rekindled my fascination (okay, love) for the classic—yes I dare describe it as such—series, Friends. I’m not even going to ask if anyone knows about this series because I wouldn’t want to live in a world ignorant to this magic. I have to admit, though. I identified with this series so much that’s why it will never be just some ordinary TV show to me. It fostered a being so much like myself that I got hooked.

Chandler Bing, for crying out loud!!

            So here’s a letter, to us Bings, wherever or whatever you may be.

To my fellow Bing,

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I know you. You’re a kid, stuck inside a grown-up’s body. You’re awkward, witty, and often sarcastic. Your parents may have separated before you even reached puberty and that’s why your quick wit and response towards jokes have become your defense mechanism. Humor is your comfort. I know you, because I am you.

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You’re probably successful at your field. Maybe making money more than most (if not all) of your friends. You love them and they love you. You’re concerned, but not too expressive about it. You can even be rough and tough.

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            Despite being the class clown, loneliness eats you up too. You make bad decisions, and won’t stop after it being a lesson. You act all dandy and careless about being alone. But you worry. Of course, because it’s the most frightening thing.

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            There’s the urge to settle. You believe too much that maybe people don’t really get what they want, that they get what they need. You convince yourself that maybe this is what you need.

            But honey, never be mistaken. You see a Janice now, maybe. Maybe you’re thinking that this is all you’ll ever have. Sit tight. Don’t fall into the trap of settling.

A Monica is around the corner. Be patient.

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            Soon you’ll realize why everything happened—why hearts had to be broken and why opportunities had to be missed. It will make sense eventually. Trust.

            For the meantime, go through all the mistakes you need to surpass and remember that you’ll always have the comfort of other people. And of course, you’ll still be your lovely self.

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